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When two people realise they are are both going in different directions and constantly questioning the direction in which the other is heading, is it a sign that they are “falling out of love”? It seems to be happening in my case. I don’t want it to happen. We do not have the same interests nor do we strive for the same goals. I am happy for the person in question. However, I will remain my sarcastic self. I will remain in my own beliefs. One should not have a problem with the other. I have no problems. When you grow up with someone all your life and are so close to someone it can take a small amount of adjusting when they begin to change their ways. Adjusting is all it will take. Things will change.
Its funny how people change. It is possible. I see that. People can indeed change. I respect every bit of the change in people. Determined, devoted, driven, motivated, and with enough faith, people can and will change. So much so, that those close to them do notice these changes, and they must if the changes are the be vast enough. To see it happen before your very eyes can be a hard thing. It is quite hard at times. There will be conflicts. But each should respect the other still.
The conflict will pass. These things always do.
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I was interested by the title of this blog so I decided to read it. I usually don’t read things that I don’t recognise or think I will have no interest in, out of laziness I suppose. This is soumething I am trying to change. This blog has motivated me to read more.
I think I realise now how important some things are to the people close to me. I think in the past I took particular relationships for granted, not intentionally but out of familarity I suppose.
Reading this blog I finally realised the impact changes in my own life can have on those close to me and it upset me to think that I had possibly alienated the ones I love most in the world.
I hope that when people realise they are going in different directions and that signifcant changes have occured in their lives that it does not necessarily mean that they are falling out of love as this blog suggests but that they are discovering themselves and rediscovering eachother.
Any journey of discovery must be undertaken with respect and love and consideration for the feelings of those close to us.
I realise this now and hope that I will be able continue on this roadtrip of life with my best bud.
Staying where no-one sees us and no-one hears us.
Peace and love
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